President Donald Trump walks at the White House, Thursday, Sept. 25, 2025, in Washington. (AP Photo/Alex Brandon)

The epiphany hit last week while I was trying to push a neighbor’s old Chevy Tahoe off the streetscape median.

I was walking home from the grocery store Saturday and I saw two guys struggling to push the hulking SUV backward off the raised median. I could see my elderly neighbor behind the wheel. I’d never met him, but I’d seen him outside his house, a few blocks from mine, for years.

Another man, and his wife and his dog, out for a stroll, crossed the street to avoid the car chaos, not making eye contact with the guys in a fuss or me.

“It won’t go in reverse,” my neighbor told me through his car window as I approached to see what was up.

The two guys pushing couldn’t heave hard enough to get the car off the median and back into the street. I couldn’t help but think what good friends my neighbor had that would help him with what was clearly an awful task. I joined the two guys, and the three of us heaved and groaned and finally got the car far enough into the street so my neighbor could drive it forward and park it.

We had our guy moment, fist-bumping our physical prowess. I’d check for soreness later, I figured.

The two guys weren’t my neighbor’s friends. They were strangers. They saw the old man and the stuck car and just came over to help. One guy spoke only Spanish. He was on a rental scooter delivering groceries when he saw the dilemma.

The other stranger was just walking out for a beer and saw what looked like trouble and stopped to help.

It was a random act of kindness.

I’m from Manzanola, in southeast Colorado. I was raised to offer help to people who needed it, without thinking, whether they were strangers or friends. People who are beset with some encumbrance or issue warrant extra or specialized help, just because they need it, because something is holding them back. 

I never dreamed I’d live in a place where that kind of compassion and tolerance would be struck down by the government and maligned as “racist” or “woke.”

During the last few decades, the United States has taken a long, hard look at who’s equal and who’s not here. Not very long ago, women couldn’t get credit cards unless their husband helped get them one.

And it is indisputable that minorities, especially people of color, have languished and even suffered hugely in this country, and they still do. If you don’t believe that, you’re either ignorant of the undeniable evidence and reality, or, as a bigot and a racist, you are the problem.

This all became critically worse in January when President Trump and his army of bigots rolled into power, undermining and even outlawing issues linked to Diversity, Equity and Inclusion, which is nothing more than a new name for a decades-long push toward realizing the mercurial goal of American equality.

Trump has bastardized the grail and says his gutting anti-racism programs and policies is actually “ending racism.”

In reality, he’s ending the tools that expose it.

His executive orders banning “critical race theory,” gutting diversity, equity and inclusion programs, and reviving his sham 1776 Commission aren’t acts of progress. They’re acts of erasure. And they are as dangerous as they are dishonest.

Trump and his Republican enablers aren’t fighting racism. They’re fighting the very idea that America should confront it. They want classrooms scrubbed of uncomfortable truths, teachers silenced and marginalized students shoved back into the shadows.

It’s oppression dressed up as patriotism.

Trump calls critical race theory “inherently racist” and threatens to strip schools of federal funding if teachers so much as acknowledge systemic discrimination. He mocks gender inclusivity policies as “radical ideology.”

In states like Wisconsin, simply telling students to respect gender identity was treated as a scandal. In Virginia, a policy to call kids by the names they choose was painted as indoctrination.

In rural Colorado, we called it kindness and respect.

Those qualities are now enemies of the state in Trump’s America.

In typical Trump fashion, a man with a half-century record of racial antagonism suddenly declares himself the arbiter of what’s racist.

You don’t have to imagine or exaggerate Trump’s record. In the 1970s, the Justice Department sued him for refusing to rent his New York apartments to Black families. In the 1980s, he whipped up hysteria against the “Central Park Five,” demanding the death penalty for Black teenagers who were later exonerated. In the 1990s, he sneered at Native Americans in front of Congress, declaring they didn’t “look Indian.” He rode the racist “birther” lie against President Barack Obama straight into the White House.

Trump is not a man who just stumbled into racial controversy. He made it his brand.

So let’s stop the nonsense that Trump’s war on DEI is about protecting children. It’s about protecting the power of white people, primarily men and primarily those who are straight or in the closet. Trump’s goal isn’t to end bigotry. His goal is to end the conversation about bigotry.

That’s why the 1776 Commission is back. This committee of revisionists produced a report so laughably whitewashed that reputable historians across the spectrum shredded it. It downplayed slavery, scolded the civil rights movement, and tried to resurrect a fairy tale in which America has always lived up to its ideals. It isn’t history. It’s propaganda.

It’s caught on, even in Aurora. Here, the city council overtly and quietly squelched the city’s DEI program that provided critical information and understanding to city employees, and it worked to help make Aurora the diverse and enviable city workforce it has become. Over the past few weeks, some of the city council members have has worked feverishly to dissolve the city’s storied Human Relations Commission, which has worked successfully to help all of the city understand that underdogs really do exist, and that offering kindness, help and understanding makes for a better Aurora community for everyone. Every time.

Equity programs exist because equality doesn’t come from pretending the past never happened. These programs, councils and commissions exist because barriers remain in hiring, in education and in all kinds of American opportunities. They still exist because racism is not a relic. It’s alive in wage gaps, in school funding, in incarceration rates and even in how Aurora police handle, and mishandle, people that officers encounter.

Trump knows this. So do Republicans in Congress and state legislatures rushing to ban “divisive concepts.” Their cynicism is the point. They’d rather peddle a fantasy of colorblind America than admit the scoreboard is still rigged.

Pretending racism ended with Martin Luther King Jr. doesn’t make it true. Banning teachers from discussing discrimination won’t end it. Deporting students for protesting won’t silence them. And calling the press for equity “racist” doesn’t make it true.

The real danger is that tired parents, overwhelmed teachers, and frightened school boards and government employees will choose quiet over conflict, erasure over honesty. Children will grow up in classrooms silent about the struggle and sanitized of truth.

They will grow up in a world where kindness and a sense of non-judgmental generosity are meted out only to those who qualify for it based on their political ideology, not because they just need the help.

Trump has waged a war on truth and kindness itself. And the only way to stop it is to call it what it is — loudly, relentlessly, and without apology.

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16 Comments

  1. LOL, DEI is for hard-core hopeless losers. Find Christ, learn that God loves everyone, that trying to force everyone on earth to be equal in outcomes is evil, and all the mumbo jumbo rationalizations are nothing more than racism in and of themselves. The truth will set you free. If someone does not like you, that is their right, as a human being, you cannot force them to like you by passing laws or twisting history to suit your hopeless narratives. The people waging their war of hate on Whites will face judgment one day and they will not like the verdict, God knows the heart, he will not be impressed with the lame arguments about racism. You were forced to live a bitter resentful life, full of hate, no forgiveness, all because the “evil white man” made you do it, he was so horrible, like Hitler, that you had no choice. Wrong, you have a choice to find a better way to spend your life than hating Whitey.

      1. He’s not wrong that your side hates white people. It’s why you hate majority white neighborhoods so much.

          1. You have a monopoly on judging others? FWO’s comment was very good, you sound like you cannot handle the truth, so you lash out in personal attacks. The beauty of online forums is that people can argue opinions and facts with strangers so there is no need for any personal attacks or hurt feelings.

          2. You’re an expert on stupidity, Jeff, because you see it all the time. It’s called a mirror.

            And yes, you do hate white people, or you wouldn’t have spoken about white neighborhoods in Douglas County with such contempt.

  2. Dave, your opinion piece is absolutely on point! I’m from Iowa, a state that people used to think was known for nice people. It has turned ruby red and is now Trump territory. When I visit, some of my relatives openly say racist and misogynistic things. They seem to think this is ok now; as if they’ve been given permission. This represents what Trump’s BS campaign against truly facing our past has brought to our society. We’ve all noticed it. We are a more contentious society, where a city council person, like Danielle Jurinski, can gain a following by constantly creating chaos and spewing lies about immigrants instead of doing constructive work for Aurora! This is not and should not be accepted as normal!

    1. Hey Kane, could it be that you are misinterpreting your very own relatives? I find your comments leave a lot to be desired and understood. Maybe they do, too. You certainly don’t understand Danielle’s strong and outstanding work for the citizens of Aurora so maybe you don’t really understand your own relatives.

      Take a minute Kane and study Kirk’s comment below. It will help to make you a smarter person about life in all of the USA.

      1. Really, Dick? I found Kane’s comments very clear. I have seen Danielle Jurinsky do nothing for this city but spout hateful comments, pick stupid fights, and make outrageous comments. Kirk’s comments below are typical lies about the purpose of DEI. It does not remove merit, achievement and ability as a primary consideration. It makes sure that a minority or women or older adults who have the superior skills and knowledge are not passed over because of racism, ageism, sexism, etc. I always get the feeling that white men are threatened by the advancements and achievements by minorities and women. It is no longer the white man’s world and the good old boys club is extinct.

        1. I think you misunderstand the difference between equality and equity. Equality and affirmative action make sure that minorities, etc. are not passed over because of racism, etc. Equity is a different animal and weighs race and other woke qualities above merit, ability and accomplishment. Equity implies there is a “debt” owed to those who have been “oppressed” and must be paid back by equalizing outcomes. I am reminded of an instance where Jasmine Crockett, a Representative from Texas, was asked in a job interview why she should be hired and responded, “because I am Black!”

          Affirmative Action was created because of the belief that young Black and minority kids could not aspire to careers if they did not see other Black and minority persons in positions of success, authority and power. We have had these programs in effect now for over 50 years. We now see Black and minorities represented as billionaires, CEOs, judges, Congress members and a President. Affirmative Action has achieved its goals. This was not the action of White men who felt threatened. Whites actually want to see minorities advance in the world as it confirms to them that the anyone can succeed in the system that White Europeans created. They take pride in that.

          1. Kirk, I am 75 years old. I remember when women and minorities were passed over because of the assumption that they weren’t smart enough, strong enough to handle a job based solely on race or sex. Yet, that prejudice still exists. Your comment about CEOs, billionaires, etc dismisses the prejudice that still exists among every day jobs. Women and minorities are still paid less, passed over, etc. Just listen to Hegseth who not so subtly dismissed women and minorities (we won’t have this “woke” culture.”) I worked as a plaintiff employment paralegal and still do some contract work. I see first hand the prejudice that still exists. Affirmative action was not created just so minorities could see others in positions of success, etc. It was created and should still exist to give minorities and women equal opportunities. The present administration not so subtly wants to reverse this. Their lack of respect for women and minorities has been front and center from day one with the firing of women and minorities from positions of power both in the military and in the federal government. If in fact, white Europeans take pride in the success of all, we should all be concerned and outraged at the path the administration is going down. They are a perfect example of why we need affirmative action.

    2. There’s nothing wrong with political disagreement. Your side promoting the idea that only your politics should be the ruling ideology is antithetical to an actual “democratic” society.

  3. DEI programs accelerate America’s “race to the bottom” by removing merit, achievement and ability as primary considerations in decision making. They further harm America by eliminating personal responsibility as a primary factor for one’s outcomes in life. These left-wing ideologies promote the notion to our youth that if your life isn’t what you want it to be, it is always someone else’s fault. These attitudes underlie why we have become such a sick society and why our youth feel entitled to make others pay for their misery by shooting up their schools.

    1. I lived in Chicago for 20+ years.

      I saw a lot of racism. It was embedded, like a terminal disease. What blacks suffered, daily, was disgusting.

      Like your post.

  4. Thank you for calling out this administration on its policies of racism, sexism lies, and bigotry.

  5. Yes, Dave, we all know how much your side hates white people. You don’t have to write a whole screed confirming it.

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