AURORA | This was to be a weekend full of fun for Alex Sullivan: He planned to ring in his 27th birthday with friends at a midnight showing of “The Dark Knight Rises” and then celebrate his first wedding anniversary on Sunday.
Instead, Sullivan’s family confirmed late Friday that he was among those killed in a deadly shooting rampage in suburban Denver. He was in the crowded theater when a gunman barged in at the beginning of the movie, set off a gas canister and began firing as spectators dove for cover.
“He was a very, very good young man,” said Sullivan’s uncle, Joe Loewenguth. “He always had a smile, always made you laugh. He had a little bit of comic in him. Witty, smart. He was loving, had a big heart.”
Micayla Medek, 23, was also among the dead, her father’s cousin, Anita Busch, told the Associated Press.
Busch said the news, while heartbreaking, was a relief for the family after an agonizing day of waiting for news.
“I hope this evil act … doesn’t shake people’s faith in God,” she said.
A sports blogger who recently wrote of surviving a Toronto shooting was also among those killed, the woman’s brother said.
The death of Jessica Ghawi, who was also known as Jessica Redfield, was a “complete and utter shock, said her brother, Jordan Ghawi.
Aurora Police Chief Dan Oates said at a press conference that in addition to the 12 dead, 70 were injured, but not all were shot. Eleven remained in critical condition.
Oates said the last of the 10 deceased victims was removed from the theater Friday afternoon. Officers expected to get a list of the deceased and meet with their families later Friday.
In addition to the 10 people who died at the theater, two others later died from their injuries.
Jordan Ghawi said on his website that a man who was with his sister at the theater described the chaos, saying he and Jessica Ghawi dropped to take cover when the gunman first started shooting. Jessica Ghawi was shot in the leg, her brother wrote, describing details relayed to him by a man identified as a mutual friend named Brent.
Jessica Ghawi began screaming when she was shot, and the friend tried to calm her and stop the bleeding, according to Jordan Ghawi. The man was then shot, but he continued attending to Jessica Ghawi’s wound before he realized she had stopped screaming, Jordan Ghawi stated. The man said Jessica Ghawi had been shot in the head.
Jordan Ghawi said the friend escaped the theater after being shot twice, but he was expected to survive. Jordan Ghawi praised the man, saying his “actions are nothing but heroic.”
Jessica Ghawi, 24, moved to Denver from Texas about a year ago, and friends and colleagues described her as outgoing, smart and witty.
“She was always kind of a sponge as far as how she could be an even better journalist and sports broadcaster,” said Peter Burns, a radio sports show host with Mile High Sports Radio in Denver, where Ghawi recently interned.
Ghawi blogged at length about surviving the Eaton Centre mall shooting in Toronto that killed two people and sent several others to the hospital. Burns and his girlfriend, Lauren Anuskewicz, said the blog reflected everything she told them.
“She was like, ‘You guys would never believe what happened,’” Anuskewicz said.
Ghawi wrote of the Toronto shooting: “I was shown how fragile life was on Saturday. I saw the terror on bystanders’ faces. I saw the victims of a senseless crime. I saw lives change. I was reminded that we don’t know when or where our time on Earth will end. When or where we will breathe our last breath.”
Anuskewicz said Ghawi had been in Toronto visiting a boyfriend and “it obviously was a very scary situation.”
“And to be just so close to it,” she added. “It’s just impossible to imagine that not even a month and a half later this would happen, and she would be involved. It’s just awful.”
Yet, Burns said, Ghawi seemed more enlivened than intimidated by surviving that shooting. “After the Toronto incident, I think she even looked at that like, ‘Hey, even after that, I’m able to pursue my dream,” he said.
Burns said he was close to Ghawi’s family. He moved to Denver from Texas a few years ago and talked with Ghawi about establishing a sports radio career there, he said.
Former colleague Mike Taylor, a sports host at KTKR-AM in San Antonio, described how she reluctantly changed her name for her career, taking the name “Redfield” as a play on her red hair because it was easier to say than her given name.
Jessica Ghawi was a prolific social media user under the new name.
Her last tweet, sent late Thursday, stated in all capital letters: “movie doesn’t start for 20 minutes.”
I feel so saddened for each and every victim, their families, loved ones, friends, and all the injured. I use to live in Colorado and attended movies at the Century theater many occasions. My heart goes out to everyone who has been affected by this tragedy. May God be with you and heal your pain.
To all the friends and families and victims, please accept my deepest sympathy. For those who died, the grief must be overwhelming. For those who were injured, there will be emotional pain as well as physical pain to overcome. And lastly, for those uninjured, yet nevertheless still victims, there will be the psychological pain. Please take care of yourselves and seek comfort and support in friends, family and professionals.
Survivors guilt and post traumatic stress disorder are very real possibilities for many of you.
I cannot imagine what it must have been like for those people going to do something as simple as watching a movie endure something like this.
To paraphrase Jerry Garcia “The sun will shine in your back yard someday”. Though you may feel darkness now, may time heal the pain and bring light back into your life, full of warmth, love and tender memories.
With all the sorrow and prayers we can send your way in Aurora. You are ALL in our thoughts. God Bless All!
Scranton, PA
My thoughts and prayers go out to the victims and families of the slain. may you all R.I.P